A lot of people think that, that, if they don’t make a good first impression that they’re dead in the water.
It’s not true. K?
There’s a far more powerful principle You Can Apply to Increase Your Own Level of Attractiveness. It’s just more long term.
That principle is called the familiarity principle
In other words, the more times somebody sees you, even if it’s for a few minutes every day or a minute in passing, the more attractive you become.
So, the people who are rated a five on the first meeting, after about a month of seeing them once or twice a week, they’re going to go up to a six or seven.
You become familiar and that breeds a level of comfort, attractiveness that becomes very, very useful.
You know, there’s a reason why when people joke about how sometimes a child doesn’t look like her father.
They say the milkman must’ve been over or the mailman came over. Why? Who do they see everyday?
The milkman. The maid. The postman.
The boy next door. The girl next door.
The gardner. The pool person. Why? They see them everyday or every other….On a consistent basis over time.
The level of attractivity goes up.